You're probably cooking it too long
It thickens on sitting, and even more if you refrigerate it. You can always thin it with a little milk or cream. smileys/wink.gif
Yes, you can use plain rice, but the grains tend to get harder when refrigerated, and you don't get that basmati perfume. With either one, the grains should not be distinct, but almost disintegrating.
Again, I would add the cardamom at the end. It has a fresher flavour that way, and is easier to control. Add more than you think is necessary!
I rang up two friends and got entirely different recipes, lol. I tried one last night, and liked it, but felt it should have been sweeter. That part is so subjective. I didn't use rosewater, because a lot of people don't have it or don't like it. I put in just a drop or two of vanilla, but not enough for it to taste like American rice pudding, lol. I like it warm and plain, with just a few chopped pistachios on top. I like that creaminess. For "important occasions" you can mix in saffron, sultanas, almonds, and pistachios.
Anyhow, here's the first recipe. I'll test the second one soon. It's similar, but uses part sweetened condensed milk, which is a popular ingredient in sweets.
Chawal ki Kheer (Indian rice pudding)
9 Tbl. basmati rice
8+1/2 cups whole milk
1 tsp. butter ghee (or butter)
9 Tbl. sugar (I'd increase to at least 11 Tbl.)
Ground cardamom to taste (at least 1/4 tsp.)
Rosewater to taste (or 2-3 drops vanilla, no more)
2 Tbl. each almonds and pistachios, chopped, slivered, or sliced - optional
1 Tbl. sultanas/raisins - optional
Rinse rice and then soak in cold water at least 1/2 hour; drain. Heat ghee in large, heavy pot and add drained rice and saute, stirring, for a few minutes. Add milk and bring to a boil. Lower heat, and cook, stirring occasionally, until rice starts to disintegrate and texture has thickened somewhat, in the neighbourhood of 1/2 hour. Stir in sugar, ground cardamom, and flavouring, to taste. Use more sugar if serving cold. If desired, stir in nuts and sultanas.
Serve hot or chilled.
I'll let you know how the second one compares.
Channa