lame after age 50, and so does everything else, but I won't complain too much!)and we both love to cook, and have both been in charge of holiday meals for years. So, whose menu/recipes/traditions get to make it to the holiday table???? I'm opting to stay in the background for a change and have Thanksgiving at his place, but I had to make my red cabbage and the desserts, which are sugar free and no one else likes to bake, so that's a win for me. How do you all juggle the traditions? It's actually kinda nice to sit back and relax a bit about the preparations.