This is so complicated. We had peach, apple, pear, plum trees. All fruited and all had no mates.
Then we got a saskatoon. It too, was all alone and went crazy. It was like we were living in an orchard. Our apple, at 60 years of age, was so famous, people would come from around the neighbourhood asking for cuttings to graft to theirs.
Then along comes a second saskatoon (a close cousin also imported from the prairies) and it starts growing up at the end of the same yard, and it refused to fruit. We introduced fairy dust from the big tree, but it still wouldn't. After 20 years, it did almost nothing.
And here I have a kaffir lime that I would like to send out on a date but don't know anyone here who has one. I'd love to see little fruits on it. And yes, I started it from a seed.
I'm going to try an avocado tree from a pit. Maybe I can find someone else with one. I actually remember from school, how to do grafts. But I'm not sure I want to go looking to determine which is a boy and, you know.
But I really don't understand all this business. I still don't know what happens with chickens and eggs. (It's no wonder I never had any kids)