we're just finishing our counters......
1st - congrats Steve, it's looks beautiful!
when I was ready to start on the counters Steve was just starting his remodle and posted great info on various counter choices. (on Gail's)
we almost went with granite but I was having doubts about how it would look with the massive amount of counter surface I have.and how reflective it is. DH researched granite and not all is created equal. the one I wanted was porous and would have the staining probs mentioned by some of you. also, some of it cracks easily. I didn't care for the limited choice of the better grade.
I also didn't want tile due, again, to amount of counter surface. having said that, I found the most beautiful Italian porclean tiles! they look like natural stone and are soft, warm and inviting, in, what was, a large cold kitchen.
we got 18" tiles with 1/8" grout lines. the tiles do not have repeat pattern problems. from what Steve said, porclean is about the best you can have for counters as far as durability and staining goes. I'm over-the-top happy with how they look and everyone, including some contractor friends, just love them too.
we are getting a maple Boo's butcher block counter for the island, slighty lower than the counters are to allow for flow. I'm grateful that we didn't have to gut the kitchen. my needs are cosmetic. next is replacing the white laminate cabinet doors and I will be a happy camper!
best of luck with your re-d0