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their home with 2 other couples. I offered to bring a french side or appy. She said absolutely no, this is a typical french dinner (They both grew up in france and still go there frequently).

SO, my dilemma, ... what should I bring for a host / hostess gift? I would like to do something from france.... Any thoughts?

I am open, could be a french scarf, or candles.... Just want it to be special and thoughtful. I will be bringing a french wine. Open to suggestions.

Thanks so much for thoughts / insights / ideas.

In my neighborhood, we normally do buffet / bring your favorite dish / easy peasy.... Not used to a formal dinner party.

 
I can speak from experience, the French are confused by host/hostess gifts. They expect nothing

in exchange for their invitation except a future invitation on your part.

So, while the French wine would be appreciated, it is not necessary. Candles or something for the home would be more on point. And something totally American or even Hungarian might be best. Candles, chocolates, cookeis etc. are good. Anything self-contained and not requiring immediate attention

The thing is, don't bring anything you expect to be served that evening. They've got it totally covered, they're funny that way, and may not be open to an additional wine or dessert.

 
How about a beautiful small flower arrangement? Or something non-consumable

that is clearly not meant for use at the event, like high-end dish towels?

I think most people who throw a formal dinner party have put a lot of thought and effort into the menu and beverages and don't wish to feel obligated to serve something brought by their guest.

 
Excellent point, Joe. One would think you knew a Frenchman.

I love the thought but I don't love having to deal with the gift immediately.

Do not bring something that needs to be refrigerated!!!!

When my sister-in-law comes for Christmas, one of her stepkids sends an Edible Arrangement. A big one for 3 people. I have no room in the fridge for such a thing.

Everybody knows sister loves fruit...even me! I make sure there is fruit for her. I've asked them not to send this but it goes in one ear and out the other. It's easy for them. Rant over

 
Miss Manners says the perfect hostess gift, if you must bring one, is a basket of homegrown tomatoes

Self contained, not in need of immediate attention, invaluable, and personal.

Also the French, at least the ones I know, are crazy about jam and preserves. Homemade preserves are a fantastic gift for anyone.

 
If flowers, count 'em. smileys/wink.gif It has to be an odd number; even, bad luck.

(Honestly, I can't remember if this is the French or just most of Europe.) smileys/wink.gif

 
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