as I have said repeatedly
the Swap is the same. You can participate in the other elements of the site - or not. It is your choice. If you have no intention of participating in modern social elements. I have no problem with that at all. I've gone out of my way for years to accommodate you with the existing Recipe Swap. It is an ancient, clunky thing that is difficult to administrate and maintain. But it is here. Exactly the same and you are free to use it.
Why do things have to change? Well first of all, as I have said this is not an either / or proposition. It is both. The Swap is here. It is the same. You are free to use it. So maybe you prefer this but realistically you are part of a very small minority. But I am not telling you - hey you have to get with the program and enter the 21st Century Already! I'm saying OK, here it is but for those people who prefer the 2011+ Internet we have an option for them too. So how is this a problem for you?
But to clarify the "change" question - for one thing, because there are some realities to running a web site such as updating the software. A typical website runs on a server or servers that include:
1) Operating System e.g. Linux
2) Web server e.g. Apache
3) Database e.g. mysql
4) Scripting engine e.g. php
These are just the fundamentals before you even get to the "website." Each of these elements are updated continually. These updates are both for evolving functionality, fixes and for security. Eventually if you have a piece of software/script that runs on such an environment, and it is not likewise updated and developed, it will simply stop working as the compatibility is increasingly deprecated. Even if it does not stop working per se, at any given point in time, there are security issues to be concerned with.
The Internet is constantly evolving as are the ways it is accessed. So maybe The Swap looks one way on your Windows 98 PC (which you are very happy with thank you very much); but to the guy on his 2011 Macbook Pro running the latest Firefox browser it is something totally different. As a web developer you have to account for that. And frankly if you are still using Internet Explorer 6 (and for many developers now - IE 7) most web developers have no respect for you whatsoever. Not to say out of some personal disdain but that they simply do not account for it any more. It is very difficult to account for even the very latest Internet Explorer and Microsoft continue to pollute the Internet with their proprietary garbage and developers are forced to try to continually create "fixes" for it.
The Swap is based upon some software created by web development standards - in "ancient times" and the original developer no longer supports it - and hasn't for years now. While it is easy to think of a website like a car or some other commodity there is no real analogy to be made. The Swap is not a beautiful 1936 Chevrolet Pickup that can just putter along regally because a website does not exist in a vacuum. The Internet is a bunch of computers both desktop and server - and now mobile and tablet that have to get along and play nice together. If we keep this analogy going then with a website not only are the vehicles evolving but so are the roads, the tires, the fuel, the street signs, the traffic lights, the rules of the road, safety standards etc. and even the drivers. So you can package your site to look like the 1936 Chevy P/U and that can be cool and retro - but it isn't that that old beauty any more. You had to come up with a completely new creation not made in the factory in Michigan and it took a lot of extra effort to do so.
Most forums in the world today are powered by a handful of options. In most of these cases e.g. phpBB, smf, vbulletin; these forums have teams of developers. In some cases they have a world-wide base of 3rd party developers. I am guessing that in the case of phpBB for example they have thousands of 3pd.
As far as I know, the Recipe Swap is the only forum in the world right now still running this software. There may be some others but regardless there is no developer support other than myself or whoever I can hire to help out.