I burst out laughing to read your reply to the receptionist who asked you (m)
"What procedure is he in for?" You nailed it and her, Marilyn! Having had LOTS of interactions with hospitals, I can perfectly envision the scenario that morning. Bet you got the red carpet treatment after your very accurate answer to that receptionist.
I'm so glad both your husband's surgeries went well. What a travesty that he even had to undergo the 2nd one, but unfortunately mistakes do happen in the medical world. I've put together a complete 3-ring binder with all my medical history (actually now I have two huge ones!), medications, copies of all lab reports, notes, etc., etc., and that documentation has saved me from errors on countless occasions.
I have also learned to tape record all consultations and important MD appointments so I don't have to waste time taking notes and can review the discussions later at home as I transcribe. You have to be an advocate for yourself AND your loved ones and leave nothing to chance or in the total hands of the medical staff.
Not sure how mobile your husband is, but we bought a baby wireless 2-way Intercom to put by the patient's bedside after our surgeries so the other guy could hear if the one recovering in bed needed anything. He/she didn't have to yell that way. Make sure you get one with a light so if you are vacuuming and cannot hear it, you'll know your husband is calling U as the light will come on. That thing saved lots of running back and forth by whichever one of us was playing nursemaid.
Best of luck and all good wishes for speedy family recoveries across the board!