Thank you all, I went with the pinot grigio ...
Hubby (who works nights) had some this morning and said it is very tasty (thought it tasted like grape juice, myself). I don't have the exact recipe in here, but here are the basics:
2 bottles dry white wine
3/4 cup brandy
1/2 cup triple sec
1/2 cup simple syrup
2 cups orange juice
1/2 cup guave nectar
1 green apple, sliced
1 cup ea. raspberries & blackberries
The flavors are all melding together and should be just right for the couples' shower tomorrow.