I'm there with you Orchid. DH liked them a lot, me not so much.
Yup, it was the sweetness- I used Pat's tips and baked them at 350 instead of 325 and for almost 10 minutes longer than the recipe called for. That was just right- the cheese melted and the ham was hot. I found the combo of the Hawaiian sweet bread and the brown sugar-based marinade to be cloying. Sorry everybody.