I live in SEA. Take Ettas and Dahlia off your list. Ho hum. Add Matt's in the Market instead.
Crush is a budget buster. If you're looking for fine dining, that's a fine choice.
Personally, I'd skip Crush and go to Spinasse instead. It's Italian done extremely well--I get recommendations to go here from Italians. It's not cheap, but the pasta is so heavenly, it's shocking! Reservations are highly recommended.
As for tours, I've taken both the Savor Seattle and Seattle Food tours and would be happy with either one, though I lean towards Savor Seattle for the headset so you can hear the guide more clearly.
Pre-planning? This book on Pike Place Market is a new release. The recipes are terrific and the author turned me on to several places I normally just walk by. Order it on Amazon and get it cheaper, and plan your Pike Place Market strategy.
Asian food is where Seattle really shines. Two places I take visiting chefs and cookbook authors: Revel and Green Leaf. Last time my James Beard Award-winning friend was here, she ate at Green Leaf THREE days in a row! Having said that, I cannot underestimate how good Revel is. I go there at least a couple times a month. Between Green Leaf and Revel, you're eating like a king!
Salumi is good. Order the porchetta if they have it (plan your trip according to their daily special--it's on that menu). It's outrageously good!
Depending on where your condo rental is situated, if you like, I can give you tips by neighborhood as well.
http://www.amazon.com/Pike-Place-Market-Recipes-Delicious/dp/1570617422/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1338522381&sr=8-1