I saw that attitude way back in the late 70's when I was just out of chef school. But---she was..
an eye opener for me. At first I resented her attitude concerning "Italian American" food, but she was right--it's not really Italian food. I was devistated to learn that the food I grew up on was a bastardized version of the real thing --because of a lack of the proper ingredients and the "hand-me down" status of many dishes.
Now we have learned that those American style preparations are just as legitimate as any from Italy--just different. BUT delicious, and not to be looked down upon.
Marchella made me mad, then opened my eyes to a whole new cuisine. Attitudewise----she reminds me of some of my relatives. "This is the way it's mad--period; your way is the wrong way". The right way to cook Italian well changes from town to town; block to block; household to household. Take it or leave it--but taking it is always delicious.