Well, my brother has deigned to grace us with his presence for lunch on the 4th, so here's the menu:
Barbecued (ok, Baked) Chicken (Ina Garten's sauce recipe) on buns. (I'm tempted to do this ahead of time and serve it cold, since turning on the oven heats up our entire apartment. Anyone know how this is as a cold dish?)
Macaroni Salad
Tomato and Cucumber Salad
Potato Salad (I may nix one of these--three seems like overkill, personally)
Potato chips
Marian Burros's Spiced Plum Cake with whipped mascarpone topping (If I can find raspberries that aren't $3.99 for a half pint, well, that would be, as my mother would say, "Festive.") smileys/smile.gif
Iced tea and beer
This is so simple that I feel kind of stupid posting it...
Oh, and one tiny wrinkle: I love my brother to bits and he always offers to bring something whenever we host him and his girlfriend for lunch or dinner or whatnot, which is very nice, but when I say, "No, don't worry about it; the menu is all under control, thanks" (which is control-freak-sister-speak for "Thank you, but DON'T MESS WITH MY MENU, DUDE"), he ignores that and just brings whatever he feels like...which I then serve, because that's what you do. (And it's never anything that can be used later--it's always bought for that meal.) So, being an obnoxious sister, I feel that this is an overlooked part of his education as an adult and would like to tell him, "Hey! If someone says, REALLY, no need to bring anything, just yourselves, then do just that!" But how to do it...graciously? It seems like a no-brainer, to me--just bring wine or flowers. Done. I learned this from my parents when I was the age of six, probably. Why didn't he?
Or are other hosts/hostesses waaaaaaaay less uptight than I am? smileys/wink.gif