Cathy, you got me beat! I can do all that cooking...no problem. But have the house ready, too? NO
WAY! When the car is packed and I'm off to deliver for a catering gig, my kitchen is a wreck. Takes me a day or 2 to get it back into a semblance of order. I am definitely NOT a "clean as you cook" person. Ergo, the precise reason for my owning 27 silicone rubber scrapers; 3 Cuisinart bowls & as many metal blades; duplicate bowls & paddles & whips for my KA stand mixer, yadda, yadda, ya. Smile. Sure could not have all those dirty dishes sitting around if I were to have guests in.
So, I admire you GREATLY--what a superb menu & what great planning skills; I already know you're a dynamite cook & baker! I agree with CynUpstateNY--you need a Super Woman outfit.
My guess is that by the time January rolls around, you'll have forgotten all the recent stress and lack of sleep and sign up for another party at your place! Please let us know what you serve for that event. Kudos to you! I'm sure this board will be praising you to the limit for a long time yet to come.