I may have shared this story before; but your post reminded me of the time many years ago when dh
and I decided to host thanksgiving for both families. We were tired of going back and forth between our families homes, and fortunately, all of us get along very well. Little did I know that #1, they would agree and #2 how much work it is and #3 they do not want to take back the holiday (ie it will always be at our home!!!! : )
So, being the good and conscientious person I was (this was many, many years ago...) I was trying to impress my parents and MIL by combining traditions / recipes. I recall calling up my mil and requesting the privilege of making her "world famous hungarian mashed pots" (As described by my dh). I recall being very careful on my choice of words, having a pen and paper to take copious notes, and explaining our desire to integrate both of the family recipes, and dh felt her famous hungarian mashed pots were the highlight.
My MIL, who is quite proper, laughed like I have never heard her. She went on to elaborate they were from a box w/ some paprika and sauteed onions / garlic added. It was very funny!!