Whenever I have advance notice that someone is going to try & pass off 1 of my desserts
as her own, I ALWAYS make a more complex creation like the REC for Lemon Jellyroll with Pansies (URL below), and of course, I crank out homemade lemon curd (using George Geary's recipe that is referenced somewhere in the cake recipe) which is one of the ingredients for the cake filling. Ain't NO WAY she will get away with claiming my creation as her own if she serves that dessert! The guests are always so wow'ed they begin pummeling the hostess with myriad cooking questions which she CANNOT ANSWER. Then the next day when Ms. Hostess calls me in a tizzy asking for the recipe to share with her guests, I very agreeably snail mail her the 2 recipes and just wish I could see her fall over in a faint when she reads them. That particular cake takes more baking experience than the typical person possesses anymore. Your average cook has probably NEVER made an ingredient for a recipe before she can make the recipe itself! This has never failed to make the hostess "come clean", and I've always ended up with several more orders for that cake from the party guests!
NOTE: I'm not suggesting that you should make that specific Pansy Cake recipe, but definitely pick something that is compound-complex. Your "friend" will never impose on you again! Trust me on this.
PS: Since I've been a caterer, I have learned it's not wise to share any of my recipes via E-mail because it is just too darned easy for the recipient to forward them to the world. When I'm asked for a recipe, the first thing I'll do is tell the person what cookbook it came from so he/she can look it up on his/her own. If the person's persistent or insistent (doesn't want to go to the library for the cookbook or doesn't want to purchase it), then I will proceed to tell the individual to mail me an SASE, and I will make a Xerox copy of the recipe to send him/her. I have discovered that if a person goes to that much trouble, then they are sincere about wanting that particular recipe. And I always tell them that they will be getting the original recipe as it was given to me (or found by me).
I'm not keen on giving away my recipes so clients can make them because it'll be CHEAPER--especially when I see them living in these beautiful 2 million dollar homes! Yes, that has happened several times before.
I know Traca just ran a thread about someone asking her for her recipe collection, and I meant to reply with my
SASE approach, but totally forgot. Your situation has jogged my memory so I've included my SASE idea plus I've given you exactly how I handle it when I run into someone who's trying to take credit for my culinary expertise, be it ever so humble. Hope this helps!
PS: I have also discovered that when I cater parties, I'll have several people ask for my recipes, but after they are given my SASE directions, I never hear from them. And if I do receive an SASE, then I am only too happy to share with someone who went to the trouble to write to me via The Pony Express.
PPS: I just thought of something--the Pansy Cake slices into 10 one-inch spiral pieces so it's the perfect amount for your upcoming need! Smile.
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