Cathy, I totally agree...
Since I use recipes as "suggestions" it's not a big issue for me anyway. This is what I thought when I originally posted that I think it would be fun to share menus.
I too am more interested in the ideas, the contrasted and complimentary textures, flavors, themes, etc., to inspire me with ideas of my own, rather than recreating someone else's dinner (I do make exceptions on re-creating dinners of King Ludwig II of Bavaria and Kaiser Franz-Joseph of Austria, both of which I have recipes and histories from their respective palace kitchens--I'm weird, I know! LOL).
And with most any recipe now a google away, it's not hard to assemble recipes if you should need them for a menu. And as you say, if something is unique and unusual, then I'll ask.
Box of crayons and blank paper...I like the visual!