You are just a fountain of information, Colleen. I called the quasi-Disney hotel
and Reservation Specialist Raphael said: "umm, yes, actually, we are not a Disney property, even though our name is Walt Disney World Dolphin Hotel and we are on Disney property."
Huh?
So, yes, I will be charged $15 parking and $16 for WiFi, pool services, etc....BUT, I'll get two free bottles of water!
I'm happy with the location (re: boats) and the idea of sitting out on the balcony watching the fireworks, so I'm going to bite the bullet on this one. It was a last minute decision and this is the (extra) price I'll pay for not doing sufficient research. We are getting the parks for ~$30 a day (versus $80), the room is 35% off, and the weather is not miserably hot so I'm okay with a bump in the parking lot.
BUT I AM SITTING DOWN WITH YOU BEFORE WE USE THE OTHER TWO PARK DAYS (before June 7).