Prayers please........

What a wonderful group of friends you all are. I had tears rolling this morning when I popped.....

in (my daily routine when possible). The warmth from you all is totally overwhelming.
Thank You.

The best news is this is a stable, compressed fracture and as such needs rest and more rest.

I was quite annoyed at the lax way the out patients treatment went on Saturday evening. They were sweet but extremely laid back about everything...I guess this started with the police.
The police apparently arrived on the scene quite soon afterwards and my daughter by then was still in the car with the airbags around her and smoke coming up from the dash board and one policeman went to the car and said "you should climb out the window. Can you?" and then on leaning into the window he asked rather incredulously,"Are you DRESSED?"
She was returning from a day out on a boat and was wearing a white bikini and wrap which of course was not visible with the airbags all blown up and the policeman was taken aback at her apparent nudity!
So, feeling very shy and she managed to reach for a t-shirt and slip it on while still sitting all squidged up in there...I asked her how and she says she absolutely has no idea how she did it. She had to climb out the car through the window, her back was in a lot of pain and she found bending her legs almost impossible, however, she climbed out.
The ambulance arrived and the policeman told them she was another 'beached tourist'!

Her sister arrived on the scene about then and all her papers were in order, she is a resident, her car papers were also in order...on island you need everything handy in this sort of case including your insurance otherwise they will not help you with alaccrity, and will do nothing at the hospital until all is paid up!!!(remember that travellers)

We got to the hospital as she was being taken from the ambulance.
Everything was very slowly done but done it was and she was told she could go as there was no fracture just a little bit of compression (which was actually told to us and an "impression").

Only when I collected the x-rays on Monday morning did we have doctors jumping around about the fracture and how it was a fracture we could not dismiss but needed a CT scan. The waiting game was played all day and finally only after 5 pm did the 2nd doctor tell me it was imperitive to have the scan.
THAT is when I started to really worry as the 2nd doctor was rather annoyed, to say the least, that she had been allowed home even.

Well, friends, it has turned out to be the lesser
of a bad fracture. We are blessed indeed that she has only a slightly bruised eyelid, a large bite on her tongue and a very smooshed up finger now in a cast. Not a single bit of blood or internal wounds anywhere.

Thank you all for your support and prayers. There is such power in prayer and strong healing thoughts, that's for sure.

We now have to keep her doing what she has been told to do and that means...No, she can't go to the beach and lie in a chair there for at least 3 weeks, no, she can't swim for at least that amount of time, no, she is not meant to even carry a plate never mind go into work for 3 weeks....no, no sky-diving for quite sometime, nor taking any yachts out sailing.....
Yes, she must lie and rest and more rest to heal properly.

We have set up a roster between family and friends to be there for her (3 meals a day)and stay over for the night as she simply refuses to stay with anyone, she is such a giver and does not like to put anyone out. (How blessed we are to have family here and all these wonderful friends that love her so much.)
She is a tough, go-getting lass which will deffinately help her to heal quickly.

She thanks you all for your support. We too really appreciate you all, thank you.

She has a heart that is in pieces though, poor lass....her 12 year relationship has ended in the last few weeks...he is having an awfully hard time adjusting to life ashore and wants to go back to living on the high seas! She wants to settle ashore! LOL (lots of wry laughter!!)...she has to stay ashore for awhile now!

 
Thank you Judy.....after reading this...

this morning before heading for the hospital I was able to face the outcome more positively.

My husband had an accident when I was 17...I nursed him then (an interesting start to a relationship) he was kept in bed and not allowed to sit up even for about 8 weeks.

Everything was done on his back. He was so good about it too!

He was at university and therefore still living at his parents home, they had 2 maids, and me and his Gran in attendance. It was an amazing team.
I know first hand what it could have been like for my daughter.
The one really worrying thing is the facilities available here on island, as you know.
However all is now apparently as well as can be in the circumstances.
Many thanks for your encouragement.
How blessed we are that no-one else was involved.

 
How absolutely......

awful for all of you to live through that!
In a blink of the eye life can change.
How wonderful to hear that Joe has recovered as he has, best wishes for his continuing good health,...... and you feel like that piece of chewed string...I can totally sympathize. Hugs to you.

We all feel we should live life to the fullest and give all we can to make others enjoy life as much as we do, we have been rewarded by such an outpouring of love. It is incredible.

 
By the way......

I was only 17 here....when my 'to be' husband had this accident......(not that I knew we would get married then.)
It was 3 years later (just after we had married) that I heard he could be wheelchair bound for the rest of his life from another problem....we have lived with serious back hassles all these years...he is not wheelchair bound! Thank the Lord.
All memories came flooding back all jumbled as to exact times with the worry about my daughter's back.

 
Joanie I posted this so you can see that YES prayers & miracles are helpful and there is hope

Joe's was a horrifying accident, but by telling all of you-- I want you all to KNOW that a fracture of the L1 can be curable. Prayers, without a doubt, are helpful and miraculously healing. I really truly prayed for you and will continue to do so. Soon you'll be telling someone your story to give them hope too, to pass on that prayers are for everyone and they are powerful and they work!!! I'll keep you in my prayers, things WILL GET BETTER FOR YOU!!! I KNOW SO!!!

 
Well what a relief. What a RELIEF! thank you for getting back to us. sounds like

she was lucky.

And of course, I can so commiserate with the goings on. Your comment "sweet but laid back"...I know as 'sweet' but really don't care. It's a scary place to need hospitalization.

She's young. She'll heal quickly.

Thank God.

 
I am so happy for you....

isn't this a great group...their support is always there when when you need them. I am so glad your daughter is going to be okay. May I suggest something. Books on tape or DVDs, and mp3 players. I am not sure what your libraries are like, but mine have a lot of books on DVDs, and I could download them to my computer and then to my Ipod. Boredom and frustration will be big factors for your daughter. Not being able to do things, just about drove me crazy. If you would like, I could download some and mail them to her, just let me know. I am so happy that she will be okay. Children are such a worry, and a pleasure. Thank goodness for the pleasure part!

 
Excellent news. BUT, spoken from one who is now paying for not moving....

PLEASE, PLEASE have DD do some form of body movement to stretch her back, shoulders, hips, knees multiple times a day. All those joints we take so lightly.

The real pain from bruising may not show up for a few days. Then she's going to really ache.

I love a happy ending.

 
Joanie, thank you so much for the update! I have been so worried about your daughetr

and I'm so glad she will be okay.

Big hug and lot's of comfort from up north.

 
Sweet Dawn.....

Thank you for your kinc offer. DD is very busy getting her own shore based business off the ground. There are lots of other involvemnets she has being drawn into as well that in the last few weeks she has been thinking of how to slow down. Now she is going to have an enforced period of rest she will be very busy on the computor dealing with all these involements. She is an avid reader and has just been to the States and (as we usually do) she bought about 15 books, so she happens to be set up on that score too.
I find it remarkable how life deals out just what we really need. If we take what comes our way with both hands we can turn things around and be successful in our endeavours.
She is also a suberp artist and plans to spend more time doing stuff along those lines.
Her (partner) has set up her office around her bed and so she is all set....she just has to be fed and watered and then she will grow (mend)!
Thank you again for your kind offer.

 
This is very good advice, I will certainly pass it on to her.....

she is no stranger to confinement as she has had 4 knee surgeries in the space of a couple years. I am sure she will be consistant in ensuring she does what she needs to recover.
Our goal is to have her able to go to her sister's grad in the UK end July......

 
GOOD NEWS! Receiving help is more difficult than giving it....

Remind her that it is as much a blessing to receive as to give -- by allowing someone to help her, she is letting them be blessed too smileys/smile.gif

 
Great news! Thanks for the update. I fractured a disc in my back as a kid

and luckily, my parents were able to keep me mostly immobile (somehow!)...inspite of an outbreak of chickenpox and a full neck to hip brace on a 5 year old! Thankfully, today, I have absolutely no ill consequences. The jarring motion from horseback riding and jumping on a trampoline are the only things that have ever really bothered me since then. I couldn't be more thankful that I don't have more extensive issues--especially since my mom has suffered from back issues my entire life (2 disc surgeries and never ending pain)

Thankfully your daughter is doing well and I'll hold a good thought for her speedy recovery!

 
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