Hi Lisa, (long)
my husband is diabetic and I definitely try to follow a low carb diet for him. I have been introducing "good carbs" a little more for him lately, but his blood sugar is starting to rise a bit for it. He also has high cholesterol, so I have been trying to reduce the saturated fat for him also.
I am not a huge salt person, so my husband always has to salt my food, but I try to keep in on the lower side.
Sugars, are the big culprits when trying to follow a diabetic diet. Sugars raise my husband's blood sugar more than anything else, well white rice is right up there too. That is what I really watch carefully for him.
One of the best things you can do, is to eat things in their most natural form; whole fruits rather than fruit juice or dried fruit, whole grains, etc.
I try to do a lot of stir fries and such, with an emphasis on the veggies, with meat being a compliment. Generally, the sweeter something tastes, the worst it is for a diabetic. I always make sure that when hubby is eating something that has carbs in it, I give him something with fat and/or protein with it. It helps slow down the metabolism process. If you haven't already, look into glycemic indexes. you will see how your body breaks down certain foods. i have found this to be on of the most helpful things in making up my hubs diet plans.
if you have any more questions you can pm me or email me. you are smart to do this now before you become full-blown diabetic.
Oops, I forgot one more thing...EXERCISE!
it is the best thing you can do for yourself.
I broke down and bought an Ipod, and I download podcasts from NPR (food programs, a way with words, something called "shuffle" (a misc. array of segments from their daily programs), etc. I also downloaded a David Sedaris book from the library, and am getting ready to listen to Julia Childs memoir, it makes my daily walks so much fun. You completely forget you are even exercising. It is one of the best investments I have ever made.
Good luck Lisa!