Mimi, I applaud you, so much so, you'll never know, you are awsome.I was a professional advocate for
the mentally and physical disabled here in Az. My life, even as a young child, was working on behalf of disabled people, my grandmother was wheelchair bound before I was born and she lived with us and I always enjoyed helping her, my most strongest wish for her was to let me take her outside and go for a walk but she wouldn't do it. In school, Catholic school, we had a class for mentally challanged- this was the early 70's, believe it or not a punishment for us students who misbehaved was to spend the day helping the mentally challenged students, needless to say, I was there practically every day, I loved them and loved helping them. I grew up and became a voice for them -GREATEST JOB I EVER HAD. Now, I have it again with my son Joe (26 yrs old) we have challenges but we get through it, so much so he returned to work as a mechanic but he has less bad days but those bad days are E.R. room hell on earth days.
Just my perspective and why I applaud you.