Gourmet: What ever happened to the dinner party?

I must be more old school than I knew. We have dinner parties were we sit down

and eat on real china all the time. The only difference is that I don't serve desserts as much as I used to. Now I normally end dinner with coffee and a cake in the living room/library. It seems that appetizers and a three course dinner is too much for most of us these days. At least it is for me smileys/smile.gif.

 
How funny... I have the exact same lace tablecoth... and a teacup/saucer in that china pattern

What a perfectly GORGEOUS table you set! And I love the stationary your menu is printed on!

 
Lots of pre-planning!

Traca, I have been cooking Austrian food for decades, so I know these recipes backwards and forwards.

One Week Before
My schedule started on the weekend before with working out the menu, beginning shopping, checking pantry for staples and gathering ingredients, stocking bar, polishing silver, washing china, ironing napkins. I accomplished a lot of planning and prep work the weekend before in a calm manner.

Wednesday
But Austrian wines.

Thursday
Begin stock. Shop for last minute items. Bake cake layers.

Set table and service dishes on buffet

Friday (vacation day)
Strain and clarify consomme. Make Frittaten omelettes, slice, and store. Make red cabbage, refrigerate. Poach spiced pears (leftover cranberry relish will be used to stuff them). Cook potatoes for dumplings. Make individual salads and store in separate containers for plating. Make dinner rolls.

Saturday (day of)
Thank the kitchen gods for giving me a below freezing day. Now, my entire garage is a walk in refrigerator just off the kitchen!!!!

Assemble cake (Tim's job), store in garage.

Set up assembly line for canapes, assemble, decorate, coat in aspic, set on trays and put in garage.

Beef into a slow oven to roast for 5 hours.

Make knödel dough and form into dumplings. Put in the garage.

Plate salads, put on trays in the garage.

Scoop raspberry ice into ruby sherbet coupes. Place in covered container and bury in a snow drift out the back door. Purchased from Graeter's. They make it better than I would anyway.

Make sauce for dumplings and roast beef from consomme.

Set out red cabbage to warm.

Place green beans in pot to turn on and cook during salad.

Set out pot of water on simmer to cook dumplings.

Remove roast beef from oven, slice, cover with consomme, cover pan with foil, place in warming oven.

Wrap rolls in foil and put in warming oven.

Stuff pears with cranberry relish. Place on tray in garage.

Set out cheeses and crackers.

Fill table water glasses and water pitcher on buffet. Put butter on bread plates. Open red wines.

Tidy kitchen. Run and empty dishwasher.

At this point. Everything is done and it is two hours before company arrives.

Shower, lay down, have a cocktail and wait for the guests.

Everything was done and all I had to do was grab trays from the garage, or turn pots on to finish heating before the next course.

I take breaks between each course. Guests get up and stretch, refill drinks, etc. while the plates are cleared, rinsed and put into the dishwasher for holding/safe keeping (and later removed for washing since I don't run the crystal and china through the dishwasher). The next course is ready and waiting to be set out, or in the case of the main course, the pre-made dumplings were plopped into the simmering water and cooked while the other hot foods were plated.

I actually got to enjoy this party!!!

 
My favorite is dinner parties and I like to do fancy luncheons too. I do occasional breakfasts....

I love the planning and the use of different dishes from good china to ceramic mixes and the beautiful tables.
I must say, Richard, that your table was exceptional - one of the most beautiful I have seen.
Not to mention the menu.

Viva the dinner party!!

 
2010 Pictures: Dinner Parties, Food Prep, etc.

Evelyn in Athen's Supreme Falafels:
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Falafels Plated for serving:
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Stuffed Flank Steak ready for baking:
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Stuffed Flank Steak just out of the oven:
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Stuffed Flank Steak plated to serve:
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Downhome Sunday Dinner.

Vegetable Soup, Before:
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Vegetable Soup Cooking:
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Vegetable Soup, After:
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Smoked Pork Tenderloin out of the smoker:
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Sunday Dinner Plated:
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Oktoberfest on the healthy side. Grilled Bratwurst, white bean, garlic, and basil salad, roasted beets and walnuts in sourcream sauce, cucumber salad, avocado half, canape with liptaur spread and dilled halvarti:
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Nürnberger Bratwurst:
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German Honey in the pantry, Alpine Flower, Linden Blossom, and Black Forest Pine
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Odd little quirky product that I love, Gentleman's Relish:
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Kasseler Rippchen from the German butcher:
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Grilled Kasseler plated:
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Austrian Cucumber Salad:
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Grilled Sword Fish with Wasabi Creme, Indonesian Barley Salad and Garlic Sesame Swiss Chard:
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The company bar in the solarium:
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Sushi Party:
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Caprese Salad:
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Coquilles St. Jacque plated:
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Summer Salad of Yellow Beefsteaks and Red Cabbage Slaw:
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Grill Dinner. Marinated Filet Kebab, grilled veggies, duckfat potatoes, and parmesan salad.
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Grill Dinner: Grilled Salmon, Summer Squash, and Whole-Wheat Fusili with Carmelized Onion Jam, Bacon, Garlic, and Parmesan, Italian Chopped Salad with Buttermilk Dressing.
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Brownies:
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Roast Pork with Carmelized Onion Sauce, Baked Onions, Stuffed Pattypan Squash:
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Elaine, can you tell me more about your breakfasts? I love breakfasts, but for a crowd? What do you

serve?

 
Richard, I'm going to cry! So beautiful. Can you tell me about

the stuffed flank steak? That looks right up my alley.

It looks like you have a smoker. Do you make your own sausages too? The green chile chicken sausae I've posted on F.K. looks right up your alley!

 
Traca...

The flank steak was very simple. Dijon mustard, Swiss cheese and asparagus, roll.

I get sausages from a German butcher shop. They buy local animals, do their own butchering, make all sausages, cold cuts, leberwurst, put it in their smoker (and homemade smoked leberwurst is to die for!). They smoke turkeys and their hams are beyond amaazing. They work with their customers and cut beautiful chops and roasts, trim, etc. Wouldn't know what to do without them! I can call and place my order and it's ready to pickup if I'm in a hurry.

For any of you in the Cincinnati area, this is Avril Bleh downtown on Court Street. Amazing butcher shop.

 
Richard, I've read your schedule carefully, and nowhere does it include these essentials:

all of which we had to do for our last dinner party:

Clear dining table of mail, important files, blueprints, car parts, cat toys, etc. Comb house and garden for misplaced dining room chairs. Give up on finding the iron and hope the tablecloth relaxes on its own.

Notice that now none of the living room sconces work--the last one died at Christmas--and go to Home Depot for new light fixtures to install.

Borrow truck to empty garage for the Goodwill, so one can access the spare refrigerator and freezer. Be grateful that they are both uncovered in working order.

Call an emergency plumber to snake the drains, which always clog when company is on its way, just in time to rinse a few pots and pans and shower before they arrive.

Drink. Hopefully the guests will bring enough wine to make up the difference smileys/wink.gif

 
Marianne, I missed it...

I was planning to go but went out the night before to play, saw the Capitol Steps at Music Hall, and got home late. I didn't even think to turn it on the radio. Hopefully I can catch the encore performance. Did you see the Girl of the Golden West last month? Wow! And I'm so psyched waiting for Die Walküre this spring!

The older crowd that attends the showings (they're filling up two auditoriums at the Cattleplex where I go) have started brownbagging and picnicing. And I am so into planning my picnics for grazing during the opera. For Fanciulla I took Italian Tuna and Pesto Salad Sandwiches, rooster crackers, Crudites, a thermos of hot tea with lemon and honey, fruitcake, and Dark Chocolate Opera Cremes. They sell wine and beer outside and we just got glasses of wine to go with the sandwiches there. My Die Walküre menu will be Bavarian of course. smileys/smile.gif

Last year I sat beside James Levine's mother (they're from Cincinnati and she still lives here) who was eating a hotdog in her fur coat as we watched Berlioz "Damnation of Faust". Too funny.

 
Our house is small but we have reversed the dining and living rooms. We have a big table in the

former living room which we can add to with a card table. The smaller dining space is just right for a couch, TV and coffee table.

We have most of our parties in the summer because we have a nice big yard. We can set up several tables for seating, or sometimes I keep it to "fork food only" so people can eat off their laps.

I guess I'm flexible on everything but the food--I like to plan the menu and make it all myself, which can cause a lot of domestic tension. I compromise by hoarding the main course and letting people bring appetizers or desserts.

 
Joe I am the dining room nazi...

NOTHING gets put on my dining room table or sideboards. NOTHING.

If I find any stray item that just happens to get laid on the table, it is immediately removed and placed in another room.

NOTHING!

But then the other half loves to start home improvement projects the day before company arrives. It's a good way of having the kitchen to myself while things get done. Except when we suddently decide the kitchen needs to be painted the night before Thanksgiving. I kid you not. This actually happened! AUGH!

 
This sounds delicious and worth a revival. Does it say how it is served? Toast points maybe?

I guess no one told them that Worcestershire sauce is not vegetarian, but it would be a moot point since I might be tempted to add bacon anyway.

 
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