My blood pressure problems were one reason I got serious about losing excess weight.
My diet is going great. I set a 14-week goal of losing 30 pounds on February 15th, and I accomplished the goal last week... at the 9th week.
I just had a bunch of blood work done, along with a "mini-physical", and they found that they could reduce my blood pressure medication since it was actually in the low range. I used to run 180/102 and now I am consistenty around 115/72.
I cleaned up my diet considerably, adding high fiber grains, veggies, fruits, etc., and cut way back on fats, sugars, red meats, white flour, etc.
Portion control is a biggie. You have to train yourself to cut portions back to reasonable levels. This was VERY HARD for me, but once you consistently begin to eat small portions at each meal, your body will begin to feel satisfied with that amount. If you over-eat and pig out on a big meal, you will be very, very uncomfortable!
Then comes activity level. Join a gym. Do the "cardio" as a priority! Join a walking club. Decide that the time spent in the gym (or out exercising) is NOT OPTIONAL. It may very well save his life, and that's how it should be treated!
Prayers to God for your husband's health, Orchid.
Michael