NFRC - May I ask for your good thoughts?

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heather_in_sf

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My family is having a difficult Christmas, and although I'm not a religious person perhaps some prayers or good thoughts will help.

My mom, who was diagnosed with diabetes last month (and is doing well), had an abnormal mammogram last week, and they did a stereo-image x-ray kind of exam with a needle biobsy then, and yesteday got the call that she had to see the doctor today. They have found breast cancer on one side and it's supposed to be in situ and not spreading. She's scheduled for surgery in early January and may possibly need radiation. If the pathology after the surgery shows there is more cancer than what they have seen then they will want to do a masectomy. Her sister had breast cancer five years ago, and after a double masectomy and a year of chemo she is fine. But after hearing of my aunt, my mom announced that if she gets cancer like that she will not pursue treatment. She is going to have the lumpectomy but doesn't want radiation, if they recommend it. She has asked that we all just forget this for now and have a good Christmas, but I'm having a hard time doing that - fortunately it's pouring so I'm going out in the rain for "fresh air" and let the rain wipe away any sogginess on my face. Then back in the house Chin Up and carrying on as per usual.

Thank you for letting me share this with you, it is such a lonely forlorn time, when we should be happy and grateful to be together and counting our blessings, but instead we are all trying not to think of anything and dance around the elephant in the room.

 
Heather, tomorrow, or the next day, the sun will shine and it may look

different. In the mean time....I like the "Zen Hugz"....and...lots of 'em!

 
You have my prayers, Heather. Give your mom some time, she needs it to think about what is happening

to her. The loss of control is very difficult and she is probably trying to get some of that back. Once she learns more about the treatment from her doctors she will do what is best for herself. My dear friend just went through this this summer and after some weeks of radiation she is cancer free. There is lots of hope out there! Give her the time she needs, and meanwhile do as she says and have a good Christmas!!

 
Pat, you are so right. Lucky so many friends and I have pretty good insurance along with

Medicare. Early last year, we got a notice from the Loyal Order of the Moose (we are members) about a cancer insurance policy that would kick in after our other insurance was used.
I asked around and a dear friend said she had great insurance and if that happened she wanted to go fast---well within two months, had a Big cancer problen and has been through mega radiation and chemo and it's looking good.
I guess we don't know how we would deal with it and hopefully we won't have to decide.
(((((((Heather & Mom))))))) and prayers too,
Nan

 
Don't let up

Heather, my Mother also had to have a mastectomy many years ago and needed no treatment of any kind after that. But the point was that she didn't want to face treatment at first and after many long talks, she agreed that she must do what ever it takes to live as long as possible for her family. So give her time to deal with the shock, but keep after her. My prayers are with you and your family.

Earnie

 
Heather, I will definitely pray for your mother and pray that she does seek treatment, She is more

"afraid" of the THOUGHT of treatment, most are, I was, but....... once she starts it will be okay for her, she'll be fine if she needs treatment.

Too.... you may want to discuss this with her doctor and tell him that you don't want him/her to tell your mother you told him/her.... Doctors are quite use to this in regards to treatment, they know how to encourage your mother to receive treatment.

I will pray for you, Please, it will be okay for you Heather.

Merry Christmas and give it all up to God, just ask for him to encourage your mother to have treatment if she needs it~ He will take care of the rest for you and your mother.

Dianne

 
(((Big hugs))) and prayers to you/mom.

This is pretty fresh, things may look different to your mom after the hustle/bustle of the holidays and the doctors review things with her.

Deep breaths.

 
Prayers are at the throne of heaven for you and your mom Heather. Just a word of encouragement...

...for you: keep in mind that cancer is not a death sentence. Your aunt proved that!

Your mom may be serious about refusing treatment, or she may just be overwhelmed with thoughts, emotions (on the inside), and doesn't want to make any huge decisions right now. Try to let her have this time to sort and process. Undoubtedly she is dealing with a lot of memories of when her sister went through it.

You will most likely be surprised at how strong your mom is. Cherish this time together, not because she is being challenged by her health issues, but simply because you love her and you love your family as a whole.

I'm not religous either, but I am a follower of Christ. I'm not trying to speak in riddles, but I want you to know that to me, religion is weak, but there is great comfort in knowing Him. My prayers for you and your mom (and family) are in His hands.

Peace Heather,

Michael

 
You are so right, Michael, there is no "religion" Follower of Christ is how I describe myself too

Here are two prayers for Sickness and Healing. I hope this helps you Heather and your Mother

"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts me in all our troubles, so that I can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort I myself have received from God (2 Corinthians 1:3,4).

Lord, look upon me with eyes of mercy.
May Your healing Spirit rest upon me.
It is through Your power that I was created.
Since You created me from nothing,
You can certainly recreate me.
Fill me with the healing power of Your Spirit.
May Your life-giving power flow into every cell
of my body and into the depths of my soul.
Mend what is broken.
Cast out anything that should not be within me.
Rebuild my brokenness.
Restore my strength for service in Your kingdom.
Touch my soul with Your compassion for others.
Touch my heart with Your courage and infinite love for all.
Touch my mind with Your wisdom,
that my mouth may always proclaim Your praise.
Teach me to reach out to You in my need,
and help me to lead others to You by example.
Most loving Heart of Jesus, bring me health in body
and spirit that I may serve You with all my strength.
This I pray dear Lord God, in the Holy and all powerful
name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, through the
loving intercession of our Heavenly Mother, Mary and
with the all present help of Your Holy Spirit.
Amen +

 
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